Do Credit Cards Make Finances Simple

by Sandy L on January 21, 2012

I have the ultimate role model when it comes to simplified personal finances.  I often wonder if Babci even has a credit score. She’s always been on a cash only basis.  It wasn’t until I started managing her finances that  she broke down and got  a checking account.  You’re probably going to ask how the heck did she pay her bills without a checking account?  Well, back in the day, she’d walk to the utility company and pay the bill on site.  The gas company was only about 4 blocks from our house, but the other bills we paid at one of those convenience stores that would have bill paying services.  I think the fee was like $0.50 per bill.  Does anyone know if those types of services still exist?

When I graduated from college, my life suddenly got complicated. I had lots of bills to pay every month, including several student loan bills. Without realizing it, I wanted to go back to my simple days where I could count the # of monthly bills on one hand, and so started my twisted obsession with debt reduction.  In addition to that, I had a wonderful negative role model in one of my ex’s regarding credit cards.  He was one of those people who paid the minimum on a bunch of credit cards and his balance never seemed to go down from month to month. It was enough to scare me and I’ve always kept my credit cards to a manageable number of 1.  I had the same citibank credit card for 10 years, but after a few less than ideal customer service experiences, I closed my account and never looked back.

I began my breakup with Citibank by first searching for the best credit card deals.  At the time Capital One had a pretty good cash back card and I said adios Citibank and I’ve been really happy with my card ever since.  Just last week I was literally 16 minutes late paying my credit card bill and when I called to see if there was anything I could do, the customer service rep said she’d waive my late fees since I had just missed the cutoff by minutes.  I was relieved because it was my after Christmas bill which was higher than usual. Needless to say, I’m still happy with my decision 5 years later.

Credit Cards vs Cash

Although Babci still believes cash is king, I like using credit cards for just about everything. I do it for the cash back but I also like it for tracking purposes.  Thankfully, we’re at the point where I don’t have to truly budget anymore. We naturally spend less than we earn, so nowadays, I just like to periodically do a backwards look at my spending to make sure I’m not going out of control in any one area.  I know it may sound strange, but having most of my expenses showing up on one bill is a lot more shocking than paying a bunch of smaller bills.  It really helped motivated me to keep my spending in check.

Questions for the readers..just because I’m curious. How many credit cards do you have and what’s your system?  Have you ever been tempted by those 10% off deals?  Lately, I’ve been tempted by the Target card..they offer 5% cash back on all your target purchases. It seems like an incredible deal, but I wonder if it would make me spend more money than I normally would there. (I mean that’s the whole point by Target’s marketing group isn’t it?)  I also thought it would be good to have a separate card just for home improvements to make tracking expenses for capital gains purposes easier but so far I haven’t.

Despite my strong desire to save a buck, my desire to keep my financial life simple so far outweighed the short term cost savings. I’m sure if I had 27 credit cards, I’d get way more mail and there would also be way more opportunity for me to miss payments and the savings would be offset by late fees.  That’s my theory and I’m sticking to it.

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Cutting Babci’s Hair with Dog Clippers

by Sandy L on January 16, 2012

Babci’s hair has been a constant source of discontent ever since she moved to my town 7 years ago. No matter where I take her, she finds fault in the hair salons I take her.  The last time she was due for a haircut, she decided that hair dressers didn’t know how to cut her hair and only a barber to do the job that would satisfy her.  I suspect it was because she just didn’t think it was worth paying $26 for a haircut and she knew a barber would be a lot cheaper. So, one Saturday morning, we went from barber shop to barber shop looking for a barber crazy enough to cut babci’s hair.  After barber shop #3, we finally found someone willing to give it a try.  Luckily, she reserved her commentary until we were back in the car.

As we were driving home, her first question was “how much did it cost?”  After answering, she immediately shared all her sentiments about what a terrible hair cut it was and that it wasn’t worth the money, blah, blah, blah.   I roll my eyes and try not to let her complaining get to me.  This is exactly what happens after every single time we go to a salon.  The crux of the issue is that she just doesn’t like paying for hair cuts, period.  No matter how cheap it is, or how good a job they do, she just never thinks it’s worth it and leaves disappointed.  Then about 6 weeks later at the most inopportune times, she randomly shoves scissors in my hands and begs me to cut her hair.   Most of the time I refuse, but last weekend, she finally wore me down. I only had small jobs at her house that weekend and I agreed to cut her hair after I was done with my chores.

Grossly Inadequate Hair Cutting Tools

We walk into the bathroom and she has one of those giant pair of black handle metal scissors (you know the ones that your schoolteacher had in grammar school), a rusty pair of blending shears and an electric trimmer labeled  “PET GROOMER” on it.  I didn’t actually notice that the trimmer was for pets until my mom proudly pointed it out followed by the deal she got on them at a tag sale this summer.  I picked up the scissors and tried to cut her hair. They didn’t cut her hair at all.  It was probably the first pair of scissors she saw and she grabbed them.  I complained and she directed me to a sharper pair she reserved for sewing. After about 20 minutes, I did manage to cut her hair to her liking, dog clippers and all and she was very happy.   The blending shears and dog clippers actually worked better than expected and all was well in the world again.  She said it was the best haircut she has gotten in years. I suspect it’s just because it was free and she finally was able to make use of the dog clippers that she picked up a few months before.

So, I guess I will have to add old lady barber to my list of growing talents.  I would have been happy to delegate those duties to a trained professional but it does seem to make Babci happy.   When it comes to frugal living, are haircuts one of those things you skimp on?   By the way, in my case, I was scarred for life by Babci’s horrendous bowl haircuts she used to inflict on me.  I overcompensate these days by paying a small fortune on my hair on a regular basis. I love my hairdresser Becky.  To this day, I recoil in horror anytime babci comes near me with a pair of scissors offering her services.  Twelve years of looking like a boy was enough to last a lifetime.

 

 

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How to Take a Break from Toxic People

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I’m back. Life was hectic, the holidays were upon us and I had 1001 things I wanted to get done during my 1.5 weeks off from work. After about thing 271 I realized that I’m insane and I needed to try to do a little less with my time. I think this is part of [...]

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Some Materialism is Good For You

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Returning Cabbages

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So we’re at the farmer’s market a few weeks ago and it is Krauting Season.  This means that we usually draw a big crowd at the farmer’s market.  People saw us filling up pillowcase after pillowcase of cabbages and couldn’t help but ask..what does one do with 200 pounds of cabbage?  A couple of people [...]

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Babci Doesn’t Own Measuring Cups

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Pricey HGTV landscapes and frugal gardens

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I’ve been remodeling homes for as long as I remember.  First it was at babci’s (one room at a time on the cheap), then it was with my 1950′s fixer upper. Finally, at the peak of the market, we bought my mom’s 1890′s split roof colonial…which needs everything.   What that means is that I’ve been [...]

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Rules to Lifestyle Inflation

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Since I run in the circles of frugal living and personal finance blogs, I’ve seen a theme over and over again that I just had to speak out against a teensy tiny bit.  You see, the theme is this:  Lifestyle Inflation is bad.   If you get to the point where you pay off your debt [...]

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Low Cost Activism

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Last week I wrote an article on Feminism that spurred quite a lot of comments. If you like you could go back to the original article and read it, but the jist of the message was this.  I stand up for myself, I lead by example, but I do not call out sexism for what [...]

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Favorites-The Organizing Myself edition

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Here’s my long overdue roundup.  There’s been a lot of good stuff out there that I’ve managed to read but not comment on lately.  I’ve been trying desperately to organize my office and electronic life in an effort to get a fresh start on next year.  Yes, my electronic life is so cluttered, that I [...]

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